Apology

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The art of apology – is a correction of question. In the “both/and” world, the question is when to apologize. In the “either/or” world, the question is whether to apologize. Which world am I living in when I apologize? The one in which I ingratiate myself to make myself feel better, to appease my people-pleasing addiction, to manipulate the human dynamic with the use of apology; or the world I prefer, the one in which my question takes into account both/all humans involved when I offer my apology?

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Choose Hope Over Worry

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“Hope is not aimless positive thinking that grins when everyone else is grieving. It’s a confident expectation that there are answers.”

Don Miller, Editor, Santa Cruz Sentinel

By the laws of nature we know that the vast majority of caterpillars entering into the depth of the cocoon emerge in beauty. There is an answer in the darkness.

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